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The Power of Decision Points

Updated: Oct 29, 2022

It is human nature to want to stay in our comfort zones, but increasingly how long we spend in that zone seems to get shorter and shorter, especially if we’re not growing spiritually or emotionally.

As I’ve explained in my prior posts, everything is energy and the planet Herself is evolving. So if all of us who live on this planet are not evolving, our lives become harder. What this means is that the frequency of the Earth is shifting upwards and if we don’t also shift up, the Universe lets us know that. It may start as little things that seem like irritations at work or in our relationships. If we don’t get the hint with these indicators, it may start to affect our relationships more deeply or even our health.

What we think affects how we feel and how we feel affects how we perceive the world and how we perceive the world affects how we think.

Let’s take the current political climate for example. Those people who repeat a thought about whether the election was stolen stay almost constantly in feelings of anger, frustration, fear and rage. They believe the thoughts they’re thinking because they feel it. Because they feel it so strongly, they perceive daily events only through this narrow lens of their personal reality and they only feel comfortable with other people who perceive the world this way. They are truly unable to see another perspective because they have so deeply identified with this personal reality that they cannot allow any thought that this isn’t the right perspective. To do so would mean admitting they and all the people they have identified with are not seeing the whole picture.

For the people on the other side of this argument who stay in feelings of fear that these people might take back power in the government or are worried that all of those responsible may not be held accountable or even worse, feel worried about the next election every time they read the news are unfortunately also contributing to the ongoing drama of it all.

Much like the metaphor of boiling a frog slowly, our society has been conditioned to react to the news instead of using it as a mirror of our collective progress.

As more and more of us stand at the crossroads between our old lives of reacting with fear to our world vs. embracing peace, we have a choice.

We can choose to continue to destroy our lives, our country and our planet or we can choose peace.

This same logic can be applied to our relationships, work, health or any other area of our lives. We can continue to live the life the way we have been living it…or we can choose peace.

I can tell you that choosing peace will likely feel scarier at first because it will be a new paradigm for us. We may have to find new friends and maybe even new family who align with the vibration of peace. As we leave behind the energies of anger, fear, hate, racism and sexism; it will create an energetic space to fill with love, understanding, compassion,

happiness and peace…because no two things can occupy the same space at the same time.

It is easier to find people of like minds across the world than at any time before in our history. We are more connected now than ever. Choose to focus on what you desire to see in your life.

Write out what you want your life to look, sound and feel like and practice feeling it and the gratitude of it all as often as possible.

Wayne Dyer taught me that “when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at…change.”

Ask yourself if you want your life to continue as it has been or if you are ready to choose change in your life.

Do you want to continue living your old life or are you ready to live anew?

If you are ready, make a decision to move forward and say that out loud – I have decided to be ­­­­­­­­­­­­­___________ (e.g. Peace, Healthy, Love, Grateful).

Write it out and post it on your fridge or somewhere you will see it several times a day.

Tell a like minded friend so they can gently guide you back when you fall off the wagon once in awhile. If you commit yourself to Peace, Love, Happiness, etc.; you WILL create it.

This is your decision point.

What will you choose?



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